In a particular area of your world, it could be clear what needs to be done differently. It's natural to think that if you did introduce a change, you'd need to retrace your steps and go back to how something has been done previously. But that's unlikely to be the case. If you haven't yet had a brainwave regarding a necessary improvement, then it will arrive shortly.
Gaining a bit more respect and understanding from the one you love might need you to make more of an effort to encourage both. Fortunately, you're not at risk of being overly assertive by doing so. You could be blessed with an innate ability to blend assertiveness with compassion at this time. It's by showing more respect in such ways that you're likely to bring more your direction.