Some obstacles appear to be massive concrete walls requiring mountain climbing apparatus to climb over. But unless we're determined to invest effort excessively, we can often consider walking around a barrier. Sometimes, this involves spotting the opportunity an apparent problem contains. If we pursue that, then we can forget about climbing! Make that your mission now.
Getting what you want or more of it with heart or flesh matters requires you to ask in the right way. The more one-sided your questions are, the less likely it is that a lover or potential sweetheart will oblige - and can you blame them? You might feel the last thing you should have to do is 'sell' your passionate idea or plan to the object of your affections. But you can do so sensitively and effectively.