Trying to be rational about what you feel is helpful and sensible. But what likely causes uncertainty or confusion might be connected to a sweet development that has yet to reveal itself. So, make it your mission to give this less 'thinking time.' Instead, allow a process to continue moving forward. One key area will soon make more sense. Then, you'll see the advantageous position you really are in.
If your emotional foundations feel shaky or unstable, releasing or removing unnecessary weight should do the trick! If you're attached, it might be a lover or someone close who could benefit from help to release weighty emotional baggage. Single? If you can look less frequently at the past, comparing it to the present, you could find momentum and your optimism levels increase!