You can be one very caring individual but don't allow your generosity or kindness to put you in a position to be taken advantage of. You could make someone's life too easy, doing them more of a disservice than helping them stand on their own two feet in a way they should. Returning your focus to your needs more often can remind you not to overextend yourself.
"OK, but you'll have to be quick." Sometimes, it's thrilling to say or hear those words. But they can also be a passion killer, which may be the case now. Intimacy could be tricky, especially if real-world responsibilities keep cropping up. But any issue is temporary. If you and somebody need to be pragmatic to clear the decks with business before pleasure can happen, so be it.