Yes, positive change is gradual. But it can feel like a royal pain in the backside when a process we know should happen sooner takes ages to tick or move along. Try to accept that you've likely done all you need to do in a particular area - for now. Soon, the momentum you've created from your effort and patience will have you busy or busier in the way you want to be!
Your personal world has likely involved more learning experiences and adjustments than you wish it did. But you could be grateful for what these revealed over time. So, it's worth taking a step back to accept how love life developments brought valuable lessons you benefit from today. You might be able to draw upon one or two now or shortly in ways that will be helpful.
Combat any anxiety or restlessness you feel with some activity that requires little concentration on your part. Housework, or cleaning or even jogging; any form of exercise that fatigues you but is not in any way demanding. Reward yourself with a treat and go to bed early. Begin tomorrow feeling refreshed.
Your finances are doing well. You know how to negotiate to your advantage, even when bargaining with someone. More options will be open to you today, so make new contacts because they may be extremely useful to you in future. Your healthy instincts will warn you in case things start to go wrong.